In today’s world if there is anyone who would listen to your every emotion and talk is a ROBOT.
Dream girl…a very good movie where in they convey a message that there should be someone in everyone’s life who you can trust and share everything to. True ,very true! But as the proverb goes, every coin has two sides.
In today’s world is there anyone to listen to you???
Every other person in this world is so engrossed in himself that he has no time to listen other’s worries, emotions or thoughts for that matter. No one is concerned about what you think unless and until it is of some use to him. SELFISH is the exact word!
On social media people post 100s of stories a year, but people who view the stories won’t say anything about the happy one’s but will definitely react on sad or thoughtful one’s – not to think or understand the meaning behind it, but to make fun of it. Bitching, taunting, gossiping about the stuff on story, misunderstanding it or predicting something else are all those things that people would prefer doing instead of understanding and talking to the person to know what exactly the issue is. Because what they think is “it’s his problem, he would be the one to suffer, he would feel sad, he would get depressed…HOW WOULD IT EVEN MATTER TO ME ? And anyways it’s not always one person to be blamed upon, he would have made some mistake too, he will get normal soon, lets forget it!” But on the other hand after some days if that person starts feeling optimistic or good about something and tries to overcome their sorrows by opening out, there are donkeys who stand up to blame them yet again!
“Yar abhi to break up hua tha, do din ni hue aur abhi dekho ladke ke sath ghum rahi hai! Kyu bhai, break up hua hai to kya ghar me padi rahe? Vo banda uska bhai ya dost nai ho sakta?! | Last week he to naukri gaye iski, aur dekho jara party kar rahi hai abhi! Ab job chali gaye to kya bhuki mar jau?! | Parso hi to iske sasur ke death ho gaye the, dekho jara kaise gulcharre uda rahi hai doston ke saath! Are kisi colleague ke sath kuch discuss kr ri hogi! “
And even if they do all this, why the hell should it bother you? Till yesterday you didn’t even care about him while he was facing hard times and now when he is doing some good, why is it so hard for you to digest? Also all this drama is just behind his back and in front of him, you don’t even dare to open your mouth! Appreciation is just so difficult these days. People have 1000 useless things to talk about but not even one thing to appreciate for. He robbed something from a shop that day, she had a divorce past month, he just had a breakup, he was fired from the job, she broke his head, Oh,what a slut, she is fat, he is dumb, he has such a dark complexion, she is such a idiot, he is from a lower caste etc. etc. etc. But wait, pause, hold on buddy and tell me one thing,
“WHO ARE YOU ? WHAT HAVE YOU DONE SO FAR, THAT YOU ARE JUDGING OTHERS?”
Everyday we predict so much negative about others, but have you ever thought how do they feel. They loose their confidence, they think that the person whom they trusted the most and felt like sharing things is pinpointing 1000 mistakes and flaws as if he is void of good things. But still he strives hard and hard and comes back tomorrow with all the goodness and courage, but you still keep giving him the same negative vibe! This makes him feel so hollow that he looses faith in himself and finds no hope, gets angry on himself, finds no answer because even though he is trying hard to overcome his weak points you come up with some bad one every time!
But what if you appreciate him just once out of those 13 times? You know what, he will rise up with that little hope everyday and try doing better every other hour, improve every minute and grow every other second !!!!!!
Thank your friend for always holding your back at any point of time, your family for being your constant support system, your neighbour for the fun and care you share, your classmate for all those silly jokes and mischieves, your soulmate for accompanying you in your thicks and thins of life, every little kid for reminding you to live life freely and enjoy every moment, a young champ for teaching that you can learn something everyday no matter how old you are, an oldie for the golden experience and a stranger for pretty smile that he shares with you every time you cross that street. You are a great optimistic human being then why not spread that positivity you have within with the world out there. Get those bright colours in your life and splash them across your path. Pave a beautiful way that would lead a sparkling future.
Your one appreciation too matters a lot !
I can guarantee that no person is that bad, it’s just that appreciation factor that lacks in the PEOPLE. Actually after few days it would be hard to find people and probably at that time my article would start with “In today’s world if there is anyone who would listen to your every emotion and talk is PEOPLE” !